
Extra hour of sleep, but still so sleepy.
Two baking experiments failed: Too much fruit making it much too wet and then the quiche that was too dry. I wish I could just mash them together to average them out.
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| Too much fruit. |
Mom's back! Picked her and Theresa up from the airport and ack! all that backseat driving from Dad. (Though he wanted me to drive because it wasn't bright and there was a bit of snow.)
They also giving me a hard time about my big coat... except for Mom. I think it's the first time in ages she didn't say I was under dressed.
Annoyed as I was, I kept quiet and listened to Mom talk about Maternal Grandmother's funeral.
Aunt 4's husband cried just as much as the rest of them (her children) -- needing 2 people to help him up.
Dad told us that when he asked him why he was so emotional. He said it was because Maternal Grandma had believed in him. There was a time when he'd been sharing an apartment with someone (couldn't even really afford to house himself), but she still agreed to let Aunt 4 marry him, trusted that he could take care of her.
Theresa didn't seem sad. Tired, but when I dropped her off, she was still excited to start unpacking and divvying souvenirs. She gave me half of the little boxes from
Yunnan (雲南) (above and at end). Each box had a line from a poem (?) / saying / stereotype about Yunnan, and they contained a pastry sweet from the region.
I then went to Mom and Dad's to have dinner and help unpack.
Aunt 5 again performed her packing magic. I'm amazed again Mom wasn't stopped at customs. There were steamed puddings (dumplings) Aunt 5 had made, and "egg fruit" (below) she thought were so tasty we (in Canada) had to try some. Unfortunately, despite all that effort, I didn't like the taste of any of it.
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| "Egg Fruit", squished |
It was pretty late by the time I got home, but I kept thinking about what Jackie said when I told her of Maternal Grandmother's death: It's horrible being an orphan. I was confused -- my mom's not an orphan. Not according to the dictionary at least, since she's not child.
But Jackie was concentrating the another party: The only people who would love you warts and all was gone.
Yeah, I can see that being awful, child or not.
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Yunnan (雲南) souvenir sweet boxes in more detail - mixed up order (if there is one):
