Showing posts with label Valentine. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Valentine. Show all posts

Sunday, 14 February 2016

It's Complicated or Funny (uh-oh) Valentine's

Yesterday, what started off as being good news ("Your baby is moving a lot... awesome."),
changed with the switch in doctors.

Dr. T.: You need to come back tomorrow for a Doppler ultrasound.
Me: But I have one scheduled Tuesday.
Dr. T.: You need to come back tomorrow.

I felt so deflated.  I thought we were in the clear - things were o.k.  But there we have it, another day of uncertainty.

Turns out I misheard, and the estimated weight of our baby is 1.75 kg (3 lbs 13.7 ounces)

Today, we spent 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the hospital, most of it was waiting (either for something to happen or for the duration of the test itself).

Paul tried to keep me entertained.  We read the paper.  And then I started dozing while he programmed.  Then when all that was exhausted, we tried to predict if the number on some readout would change or not.

The results: Baby is active (NST -- Fetal Non-Stress Test -- was again, fine).
Ultrasound doppler, placenta blood flow is good (blood is reaching the baby's brain)...

So we're left with these possibilities for the small size:
1. Baby is just small (constitution)
2. Something else is wrong
   i. I have an infection
   ii. There's a genetic issue

But as the blood flow is good and movement is good, Dr. S (kind and patient in explaining it all to us) told us it's actually better for the baby to stay inside rather than induce.  But at the same time they'll be monitoring progress with an ultrasound and an NST each week (about 3-4 days in between).

She also asked if we wanted to do some genetic testing.  I looked at Paul - what difference would it make at this point in time?  It's something that could be done after birth.  She also said it would likely take weeks for the tests to come back, and so it'll be the same time frame (knowing around time of birth).  Though one benefit, if we knew now, we could avoid the semi-weekly exams as the problem would be explained...

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Still trying to stay positive. 
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Five hours at the hospital doesn't make for a great Valentine's Day, but we're both trying to stay positive.  We're together, and sticking together to work through this.  Not romantic, but it must be love.
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Friday, 15 February 2013

Another Tasty Valentine's

"Yes, we've heard good things about and we'll have to go there some time."  A moment later, "You did pack your bus pass, right?" 

I suspected that last bit was a feint.  Though I was using his arm (he was holding me up) and we were walking to the bus stop, I was still pretty sure we weren't going far (he'd told me not to bring my crutch).  Which narrowed it to two likely dinner destinations: Creole Envie and La Boheme.  Now the next question, was that nonchalant chat with Prabdeep about La Boheme also a feint? 

Indeed, there was a slight hesitation at the bus stop before he redirected our course... and we're here!  Surprise!  And yes, it was still a surprise because even though I had narrowed it down and thought the whole thing with Prabdeep would have been cosmically funny if it did turn out, it seemed too extravagant. 

Anyway, I tried to drink in the full experience: Eating with my eyes, though it was incredibly moodfully dark, and then with my mouth.  We were seated in the main room which I wanted to call "the Sunflower" for the sunflower paintings on the wall.  An abstract wire mobile in the corner spun slowly until it resolved into a ghostly violin player. 

The waitress offered us something called cinnamon champagne.  Though I don't usually drink, it was included in the meal and I figured it would be interesting to see just what it was. 

(Right: Yes, indeed it's bubbly and cinnamon hearts.)

The printed menu showed the path our gastro experience was to take - a five course set meal with some options.  It also revealed the price tag for the evening, and that the booking was limited to 2 hours.

We had:

Soupe: Cream of Wild Mushroom

Petite EntrĂ©e:  salade de boccocini and
escargot dans la coquille

Trou Normand: Champagne Sorbet

Entrees Principales: Nous Ahi and Filet mignon de brochettes

Dessert: Chocoalte cake topped with a berry coulis and Caramel Pecan Pie

I was really excited for my escargot.  Was even more delighted when I saw they came in shells.  However there wasn't the same complicated eating method like for the Chinese snails, the flesh from these just seemed to fall out.  Paul had said it was too dark for him to take photographs.  I knew he liked the shape of the shells, so I gathered them up and asked the waitress if could take them home.  She said no. 

My face must have revealed my internal "Oh!"  (It occurred for me ask, but it was a request I didn't expect to be denied.)  As she cleared them away, she explained that the butter sauce could go rancid, and if anyone took the shells home and tried to cook with them or even reuse them for presentation, they could get sick - so it would be a health risk.  While her explanation was plausible, it made us also a little suspicious: Maybe they reused the shells too?





Our main courses arrived with "crisps" and vegetables.  One was difficult for me to identify (left) - perhaps it's a baby zucchini?  Unfortunately my choice, the Ahi tuna, which read in the description to me like sashimi, wasn't. 

After all this food, I didn't think we could fit in any dessert... but when they arrived, we still picked at them a little.  But then sensibily, asked for them to be wrapped up. 

We'd definitely overstayed the seating time, but between talking and people-watching (and the eating) I wasn't in a hurry to leave.  It was nice then that we weren't rushed. 

I'd taken multiple looks at the room and at the people around us.  (And, of course, wondered if we looked like the other couples...)

My attention, was mostly attracted to the well-dressed older couple in the table next to us.  A helium balloon had been placed between our tables to create a divider, and when the balloon floated too close, I would use its readjustment as a chance to take another look.  The woman shimmered in a kelly green sequined cardigan over a long black dress, the man was in a suit and wearing a bow tie.  Both had white hair.  I thought them cute.  I wondered if they were a long married couple, or if they had recently met.  Paul suspected from the man's accent that he was German. 

Perhaps they knew I had an ear out for them.  When Paul left for the washroom, I heard clearly, it was a very rich meal, that they couldn't do often, but it was a special day... 

I wondered then if they had heard me tell Paul my worries about the cost of the evening, how I felt it was overly decadent... and maybe they just wanted to coach / coax me: Enjoy the moment, worry less, celebrate the special days... from an experienced married couple to a (still kind of) newly married one. 

Though, of course, it's not always about me. 

Back at home, I gave Paul my gift to him.  It wasn't so grand as the meal, but he seemed to like it.  And as though it wasn't late and he wasn't tired, he immediately started playing with the polarised filter. 

Thursday, 14 February 2013

Office Sweethearts

And some advice from Uncle Ethel




http://www.gocomics.com/9chickweedlane/2012/10/21
 
Happy Valentines Day! 

Wednesday, 15 February 2012

A Tasty Valentine's

Roses are red,
Violets are purple,
Which is a very hard word to rhyme
And makes me happy that on February the 14th we don't traditionally have to give each other oranges.


In the "more than one bird can be disposed of with one stone" way, I booked our wedding venue tasting for Valentine's Day.  This was not a problem for them (extra points!), but unfortunately, it turned out to be a problem for me: I had / have a cold.  We forged on -- Paul did the heavy tasting. 

It was certainly different from my tasting experience at the Shaw.  Instead of little plates of each of the different items available, we were told to try the buffet which had (almost) all the menu items we were considering. 

Paul took a tray and gave his plate a spin (on the actual night, we'll most likely not have spinning plates).  We then ate and talked, and I made notes.  Despite my snuffed nose, everything still tasted pretty good: A very good sign. 

Paul did a good deed.  And then, though we'd agreed with some of the good points Rem had made why one should  ignore Valentine's day*, we exchanged gifts. 

He didn't have to, but he gave me an orange (perfect for popping) and sweet hibous. 

Countdown: 3 months + 1 week + 3 Days = 100 days!
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* The part I agreed with the most was the closing suggestion not to ignore: "...expand the holiday instead of ignoring it. Celebrating love is a good thing, and one could celebrate the love in all relationships, instead of just focusing on romantic relationships." 

Valentine's Day along with Random Acts of Kindness Week (this year 13-19 February) are for me reminders to be mindful of just that.

Monday, 14 February 2011

Office Valentine's

Monica is back!  And before she even got through even half of her emails a special delivery arrived.  Surprise!  A Happy Valentine's Day gift from Wayne.  She started sharing the bouquet before even taking a picture.  But we have here a reasonable shot :)

Meanwhile, when the question was posed to Olivia regarding "the Chinese version" of the holiday for her and her husband, she said they're not romantic like that anymore - married life is very different.

The other topic that came into conversation was the instability in Egypt.  Incredible. 

It was a little difficult to keep focused between all this and being sick.  I was dreading TAing dance class, but a visit from Paul recharged my batteries.



















(Above: Paul really excited about his gifts.)

(Below: A very cute family portrait, by Paul.)


Hope you all had a good Valentine's Day.

Friday, 11 February 2011

Tricky Valentine's

Billy Jean cleared the floor, while the Macrena filled it.  This just seemed wrong.  But overall, the biggest hit was the food (pizza and fruit punch).  This last point made Kevin really happy. 

Again, I've joined his school's Valentine's Family Dance.  Celina showed up with me and it turned out be a huge reunion with her friends. 

Unlike previous years, there didn't seem to be that much dancing.  Kevin was the same, grabbing snacks and running around - I chased him a bit.  But there was definitely a change in Celina.  What I want to call teenage self-conciousness that meant looking at people, commenting and comparing to oneself, and ultimately being a bit too embarassed to be out there dancing.  Or it could be, she now felt she was too cool to be dancing with the little kids to certain songs...

Since it felt ridiculous to dance by myself, I followed Celina and her girlfriends into the washroom.  Not the most comfortable of settings, but it certainly felt nice to be included.  I obviously did not know who they talked about, but the fact they didn't clam up seemed monumental.  I tried to not overstay my welcome.  Found out a little information about their lives (tonnes of stuff going on) and that Celina had a crush.  Nothing scary; what seems normal.  A balm to random worries. 

At some point I finally gave up my inhibitions and danced again with little kids who didn't seem to mind that they didn't know me.  Kevin eventually settled down and we watched a group of older kids (well, still in the 10 year-old range) do some amazing flips and tricks.  And to the music!  Yes, I jumped in as well, but my cartwheels (even one-handed) were not as impressive as their walkovers and (literally) off-the-moves. 

I think this is definitely the last year for me at these family dances.  The kids are simply too cool.  But I guess there is one consolation - they're not too cool for Cadillac Ranch!  The one song that I had both of them with me, I danced my heart out.  How embarassing :P

Monday, 15 February 2010

Cold Jeans and Hot Tools


A brief stop for a strange find on the way to the TA training (a result of some new year's luck?), and then it was back on track to dance. 

Afterwards, I made a surprise Valentine's visit to Paul's.  The day before, we'd celebrated with my attempt at a Chinese-ish dish (a fish and tofu noodle-soup thing) and Paul's Chinese penmanship.  Thus, he was not expecting me on his doorstep at all. Even more surprising were the thing-within-a-things (Chinese buns - notably pineapple buns) and a heavy, wrapped rectangle - a tool kit! 

Tools are romantic, right?  Not missing a beat, Paul made me laugh.  O.k., if not romantic, they can be lewd.

Sunday, 14 February 2010

Happy New Year and Happy Valentine's Day

or Ode to Chainsaw

It's been a crazy bit of week and all for today, Chinese (Lunar) New Year.  At one in the morning, Mom, Dad and I go about our "Walk for Big Fortune", before going back to bed.  Today we will having a (loosely) vegetarian lunch to honour buddhist roots.  Then I suspect, Mom and Dad will make calls overseas to wish family a happy new year.  This will be followed with a lot more cooking and cooking preparation.  I will be quite spoiled and not have to think about it - instead the rest of my day will be filled with dance training.

It just also happens to be Valentine's.  I've predict flower sellers will have a very good week in sales between this and CNY.

All the best to everyone!  May this second start bring good luck.

This, I grabbed from Anne's blog made me laugh, and I hope it brings a smile to your face too:  http://www.slate.com/id/2211163/

Monday, 16 February 2009

Anti-V Day

"Prepare to be Scandalised" was the subject line for my first email plottings to Kirsten. I attached this (right), a poster I noticed on the way to class, which was right next to another advertising "Fix your heartbreak, Find a Nurse Valentine's party" (where all nurses [at least those dressed as one] had no line or cover). Both events were quickly vetoed.

Anti V-Day: Kirsten's idea to go and revel in our singledom; (I add) In general, a girls' night. And/or (I also add) Anti-VD.

When our plottings were finally completed, we had our our girls going out for dinner and a movie, a cheesy vampire movie (yes, Twilight).

What actually happened: Kelly was unfortunately waylaid by vertigo, and Beth was working. So it was Kirsten, Cynthia, Catherine and I who went to dinner. We had so much fun talking (Cynthia had recently returned from Las Vegas, we all read lots and lots of books) and eating that we missed our movie.

Kirsten, Cynthia and I decided stay and catch the later (and much longer) Baz Luhrmann's Australia. It is not Moulin Rouge. Nicole Kidman is comically proper and British amid the wild (and dustiness) that is Australia's outback. The story is sweet (though a bit long) and ultimately talked about the strength in letting go. We drool over Kidman's wardrobe and luggage, and Hugh Jackman ("shower scene").

I then took everyone home. Thus ended our Anti-V Day. There was dance lesson, but I think overall, it was very successful. Here's to the ladies!

Saturday, 14 February 2009

Valentine's 2009

"What’s more romantic than an evening with Margaret?" ~ Chris

It's the final minutes of Valentines Day and I'm not sure I can call it romantic. It was certainly interesting having started with Dim Sum with family and ended many hours later at Chris’s with Margaret and some of the old Circle K gang.

Margaret and I talked about programs on CBC Radio 1 (turns out aside from Vinyl Cafe we don't like the same ones) and Chris makes fun of us with a snooty accent. CBC is for the people! Not snooty at all!

Thomas, Jeff, Shelley, Simony, Nader, Cathy, all show up at some point and were made to try chin-ups on the device that hooks onto a door frame. I obviously do not do well in this and instead stick to bouncing on the big red exercise ball.

We lazily decided to order Chinese takeout to be delivered. Someone had to make rice. And Nader was the one to do it. The Nader-directed process looked harder than my attempt to make ice cream with Chris's machine. Of course, made all the more difficult with the audience heckling. Yes, it was the old gang again.

So, there was dinner (Cathy: Is it me, or does it seem like they used the same sauce in every dish?), and then we followed it up with ice cream. Thus sated, we took to dress-up. Nader channeled movie star glamour, and then practiced his smoldering looks (to rival "Blue Steel" and "Magnum").

It was getting late, so I headed out.

Since getting home, I took to finishing Randy Pausch's “The Last Lecture” (the book version of his 76 minute lecture Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams). On CBC today, Writers and Company talked about CanLit and what passion and love was (naming The English Patient, Bear, and What Casanova Told Me as “bodice rippers” [or as close as you can get] of the genre). But this was a love story. It was about loving life, loving his family and the legacy he wanted to leave them. Had me, of course, crying by the end, and taught me too. One of his lessons:

When you see yourself doing something badly and nobody’s bothering to tell you anymore, that’s a bad place to be. You may not want to hear it, but your critics are often the ones telling you they still love you and care about you, and want to make you better.
Difficult to hear, but definitely something to keep in mind. Along with "Earnest is better than hip" and "Be the first penguin".

Friday, 13 February 2009

Hot and Cold

"When I grow up / I wanna be famous / I wanna be a star / I wanna be in the movies..."

I'm not sure how I knew the lyrics to When I Grow Up by the Pussycat Dolls, but I was chanting them with the other kids, and jumping around. It was a little sad. I'm sort of grown up already, and I'm not famous or a star... but then again, I don't think I ever said those things out loud. The song, while kind of ridiculous, overall speaks to being about being confident, not backing down, and achieving your dreams even though other people say you're silly. (Oh, and to be careful what you wish for.) So overall, a good uplifting anthem for all the tweens in the room. Maybe not so good for me.

It was Katy Perry's Hot N Cold that welcomed us to the school gym for another edition of Valentine's Day Family Dance. This might be our last edition. Celina figures we'll keep coming eventhough she's graduating to another school. It would be perfectly fine for the entire family to join Kevin and their cousins, who'd still be attending (Kevin for the snacks :P), but I have trouble seeing it. Even in the year there've been a lot of changes. Instead of dancing for the fun of dancing, there seemed to be great long sitting sessions (in protest of bad songs? or too cool to dance to that one?). The little kids who seemed really happy to see me last year were giving me a strange looks. Others were chasing each other (ah yes, the chase begins early). I suspect Auntie Lana wouldn't be as cool to take to the dance. Or be invited to Celina's junior high dances. I guess we'll see.

Friday, 15 February 2008

"I love everything about you... except the things we already discussed."
~ Shoebox "
Funny, but NO. Rejected Valentines from Shoebox"

Wendy got me a boyfriend yesterday! Just add water, and he's got muscles and he's sticky - so in her words, just like the real thing. It got a good laugh at the office. Along with the other treats people brought around it was pretty light-hearted and sugar fueled... until work got in the way. I gladly left (relatively early) for my date: Celina! We headed over to her school for the dance with Kevin in tow. It didn't take too much time before everyone was screaming and jumping around to Avril's Girlfriend (sooooo catchy). And it was good. I even managed to win some tickets to the waterpark. Now if only I liked water. Sweet text messages rounded off the day. And almost, almost the weekend.

Wednesday, 14 February 2007

On Valentine's Day

"So for accountants February 14 is a very special day. It's the last day that employees can reimburse operating costs to their employers." ~ Dennis

After going through the importance of "relationships" in taxes, Dennis added that a spousal RRSP is the most romantic gift for your sweetheart. Uh... o.k. Dennis. I can guess that's one thing I can look forward to when the day comes. In the meantime I'll just listen to you talk about the final. It's only 3 weeks away. Yet, my brain hasn't gotten into panic mode yet. And he's teaching us strategies for the exam... um... is that allowed? I shouldn't complain. A pep talk now and then is nice.

The whole day has gone by pretty fast. Starting with a "Happy St.Patrick's Day!" greeting from Wendy... I guess my special outfit (fedora with red rose) was a little confusing? Went on to help out with part of the OGRES (the group formerly known Well Being Committee) project for the season by distributing "Valentine's Warm Fuzzies". And though it was tempting to create a little kleenex mail box, I resisted the urge ;) It was nice to get a note. Lorena brought us each a bunch of tulips, and Wendy came by with chocolates. And so... it was pleasant. The whole "Hallmark Holiday" discussion came up again. Neither Helen of tax class (from China) or Lidia (from Poland) really knew about the holiday until they came to Canada.

I think about the moments of tenderness I've experienced in the last couple of days. Really this is another day for appreciation, non?

Anyway, will write more later. (I have updated: more on my Christmas break.)

Off to accupuncture. And then... I have my ITA to keep me warm :P